Q&A: What does it mean when a guy friend buys you a necklace?
Question by Eris: What does it mean when a guy friend buys you a necklace?
I went back to school in 06 and have met a few people. This guy I’m talking about started making conversation towards the end of the last fall semester. We had a class again in the spring and on the first day of class we had lunch.
It has all been very friendly but sometimes I noticed that off and on he ditched his guy friends to come hang out or to “study” where I go to read. Well we started having study session with a friend of his but I later found out that when his friend agreed to tutor him, he didn’t know I “was part of the package” as he referred to it. His friend, who is now my friend, told me this in confidence so I am not even supposed to know.
This semester I became one of the guys but am the only girl in the group. I can be rough and vulgar and hang with the boys but have my other side which is appropriate and classy. I can look like crap and pull all nighters with them or I can be dressed up and look like a million bucks, that’s just how I am. Well, this dude made me feel so comfortable that I was vulgar and dropped F-bombs and I was never offended by the guy talk. He in turn talked about girls and he was totally himself. I felt that he felt like he was talking to another guy in the group…well kind of. Throughout the semester we talked about a lot of things.
Although at first I felt he may have liked me the more I became accepted as one of the guys, the more I noticed he lost interest. I was ok with that because I rather be respected for what I contribute intellectually to the group than have anyone hang out with me because they want to get into my pants.
As charming as he was and all I was comfortable with the security of knowing I was just a friend. When we studied at nights he would walk me to my car and sometimes on Fridays we would go and get lunch before I had to go to class but we always paid for our own food. We texted sometimes a lot but mostly didn’t, we never hung out on our own outside of class. He never asked and I simply have a very full schedule.
Well this guy recently went on vacation overseas and let me know he bought me a necklace. Nothing fancy but certainly remembered how I like unique and authentic things, I am a girly girl outside of school after all and he knows that. I’m a little worried because I don’t know what this means. I have had nothing but mixed messages all semester so I just didn’t think much of anything like lunch or walking me to the car or anything else.
I know he likes to take things slow with women because we talked about that too but this is not slow this is more unexpected on my end. I don’t know what this means or what to think or how I should handle it. Maybe it’s nothing but I want to know how to deal with the situation. I have never had a guy that wasn’t a boyfriend buy me any type of jewelry, ever. I know it wasn’t expensive but this guy in on vacay with his family in a foreign and exotic country and he thinks to buy me a necklace of all things, not a trinket, not a postcard but a necklace.
What does this mean? Does it seem clear to everyone else but me?
I will have him for a class in the fall again so I don’t want to read more into it than there really is.
Please help cuz I’m clueless. Thanks!
Answer by Deanna
nobody’s going to read this book hun, but to answer your question, it means he has feelings for you..or he’s gay.
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